Know Your Coach
Marriage, an affair, your vulnerable side… we’re diving into some deep stuff. That’s why we need to create a space where two brothers sit across from each other, genuinely caring. One of us will be the stronger one at times, offering support and an open heart to the other when needed.
Expect real, down-to-earth talks. I’ve got my own scars and dark sides, so I’m not here to talk down to you. There’ll also be lightness – we’re working through things, but it won’t be all drama. And professionalism – don’t expect any hand-holding for your mistakes.
Need for Change
My once relentless drive to build a career in business led nowhere. The success and recognition I’d been chasing for years only triggered conflict and turmoil in my life. I had everything a content person could wish for – a wonderful family, seemingly harmonious relationships, a promising future… Yet, instead of enjoying it, I was stressed out, and running away. I couldn’t understand my inner conflict at all.
Luckily, after years, my state of relative dissatisfaction transformed into a strong urge for change. Even my body was calling for it. I began uncovering my limiting patterns, the expectations of others… That’s when I made the bold decision to take a leap into the unknown and moved to Asia for a year. Wild experiments, unique encounters, meditation, hundreds of hours of therapy… And I figured something out…
Eureka
The most important relationship is the one I have with myself. You can endure a crisis in a partnership for years, even though it’s exhausting, but if you ignore your inner world. I was determined to help people realize this. But how do you approach this when we’re all so different? Everyone has their own intentions, we’re all excited by different things, and we all love in our own way?
Also, how do you bring this into daily life and not let this realization just become another cool quote on a Facebook wall? That’s when I found coaching, which gave me a professional way to stand behind the best version of myself that I offer.
I assist with couples’ retreats and men’s circles, where empty philosophy doesn’t cut it anymore.
What´s Currently Happening in My Life
My current relationship has been through every phase imaginable. In nearly fifteen years, we’ve gone from flirting to lovers, experienced alienation, strengthened our bond, and even teetered on the edge of a cliff. Women have always been a significant chapter for me – maybe that’s why I have two little girls – a miracle, euphoria, and losing myself. I love my wife, yet we’re getting divorced. Damn, it hurts, but I feel incredibly alive in it. By my own choice.
Two years ago, I was asked the most significant question of my life: “Are you the kind of man you’d want as a partner for your children one day?” To this day, I get goosebumps thinking about my initial reaction – and the excitement for the journey I’ve taken since then.
What Makes Me Different
“I’ll take your hand, whether you’re a woman or a man, and we’ll walk together. Deep, so get ready. We’ll go to the place where all those feelings that brought you to me are born. That’s where your true strength and desire lie.
I can be tougher on you when I feel it’s right. But I’ll also be kind and understanding. I have a whole spectrum of emotions within me, and they’ll mix with yours. Let’s focus on life together.
I’ll stand by you as a pro, but also as a human. I’m true to myself, not too big on formality. I’m more than happy to take on a little responsibility for your better life, if you’re up for it too.”
